COLUMN:Second Base

  • Boyfriend is Changing

    Q: I don’t know what happened. My man and I were doing so well. Sure, we’ve only been dating for a month or so, but things were damn near perfect. Now all of a sudden he’s changing. He’s really short with me on the phone, he doesn’t reciprocate affection as much as he used to, and he’s kind of nonchalant about spending time with me. Please don’t state the obvious and say it sounds like he found someone else because I’ve already considered that. I need a…

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  • He Has A Girlfriend

    Q: A little more than a year ago I became involved with someone who I really could see potential with. We never hooked-up, but we wanted to. Bad timing, I guess. It was never exclusive though, and we were both still seeing other people. I had to leave the city for a while so things cooled down a bit. When I came back in town, he was seriously dating someone else and he told me that he really felt like this new  person was the one. We…

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  • He’s Avoiding My Calls

    Q: I had sex with a guy recently and now he’s avoiding me. Normally, I wouldn’t care too much. It wasn’t that great anyway. But I left some expensive earrings over his house and I really need them back because they weren’t even mine. I’ve texted him a few times and called. Nothing in reply. I’m this close to just showing up at his house but I think that’s going overboard. How do I do handle this? A: This really sucks. I mean, either…

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  • Keeping Gifts From An Ex

    Q: My boyfriend and I moved in together earlier this year to save some money. Actually, he moved into my place after selling most of his stuff.  Everything is working out fine, as I expected because we have been together for a long time and it already felt like we lived together anyway with all the time spent at each other’s place.  The thing that’s bothering me is that he kept a mini sculpture that an ex had given him years ago. I never liked it…

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  • Potential Girlfriend Has A Reputation

    Q: There’s this girl I like a lot and I’m thinking of making a move pretty soon. We have the same circle of friends so I’ve known her for a while and so do most of my boys. The problem is that all of them think she’s a slut and have basically told me I’m an idiot if I date her.  While she has an extensive list of sexual partners, she’s a sweetheart and I really want to get to know her on a more personal level.…

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  • Boyfriend On Dating Show

    Q: I’m dating an up-and-coming music artist and so far, so good. A little while ago he was approached to do a reality dating show where different women will be vying for a date with him.  When he first told me, I laughed it off and said go for it. After all, the exposure would be great for his career and I’m definitely not the jealous type. It’s just TV and nobody believes in that stuff anyway. My friends think I’m crazy for being okay with this…

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